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A Holiday for Genealogists – Memorial Day

May 24, 2024

This weekend is Memorial Day. I’ve always thought of Memorial Day as a genealogist’s holiday. Most years I make a trip to the cemeteries where my ancestors are buried to remember and honor them.

 

One of my favorite parts is bringing flowers for family graves. If I knew the person myself, I try to bring flowers that I know he or she especially liked. My paternal grandfather’s favorite flower was wild roses. No one grows the brambly pink flowers, but they’re often found growing wild along ditch banks. If I’m in town, I try to find a bush along the roadside and snip a few of the prickly blossoms for Grandpa.

 

In my family, the usual Memorial Day flowers were peonies and irises. They were always arranged in old Mason jars. Nowadays I don’t live near enough to the cemeteries where my family is to bring flowers from my own garden. Instead, I bring grocery store bouquets or pots of chrysanthemums. Not the same as bringing homegrown flowers, but I tell myself it’s the thought that counts.

 

After I visit my parents’, grandparents’, and great-grandparents’ graves, I always make it a point to wander the cemetery and visit all the aunts and uncles and cousins buried there. My husband usually accompanies me and gets to hear my stories about all of them.

 

Sometimes cousins are at the cemetery at the same time, and we renew our acquaintance over the graves. I tell them about the new information I’ve uncovered in my genealogy research. Often that sparks memories for my cousins and they tell their own stories. I think of it as a family reunion with relatives both living and dead.

 

Sadly, this year I won’t be going to Utah for Memorial Day. Instead, I’m going to visit my long-gone relatives virtually. Find-a-Grave is the largest website for cemetery photos. It’s a great way to visit cemeteries when you can’t go in person. Not only can you visit your ancestors, but it may be a way to advance your genealogy. The website allows connections between parents, children, and grandparents. By clicking from generation to generation, you can often add several generations to your family tree.

 

If you’re feeling sentimental, you can even leave a virtual flower for someone on Find-a-Grave. Not quite the same as a bouquet of wild roses, but still a way of remembering an ancestor. You can even add a picture of your relative to his or her memorial. When you can’t visit a cemetery in person, spending some time on Find-a-Grave is a good way to celebrate Memorial Day.

 

Carol Stetser

Researcher

Larimer County Genealogical Society

Finding Family in Social Histories

May 17, 2024

Fleshing out names and dates on your family tree with more personal information can be difficult. It’s especially difficult if your ancestors left no letters, journals, or diaries. Finding information on the female side of your family is often nearly impossible since they left fewer documents. Social Histories can help fill in some of the blanks.

 

Michael and Jane Stern are a married couple who co-authored a series of social histories that are especially relevant to women’s lives. Many of their books deal with food customs in America throughout the 20th century.

 

All of Jane and Michael’s books are great reads, full of lively descriptions of bygone meals from earlier times. I especially like American Gourmet: Classic Recipes, Deluxe Delights, Flamboyant Favorites, and Swank “Company” Food from the ‘50s and ‘60s. The title says it all. This book is quirky and fun to read. It also gives real insight into how your parents or grandparents transformed American meals from staid meat and potatoes dishes like beef stew to sophisticated entrees like chicken cordon bleu.

 

Best of all, the book includes recipes for many of the foods of the era. This lets you recreate a Mad Men dinner that would thrill Don Draper. It also describes some of the new swanky restaurants that Americans were beginning to frequent during the period.

 

My favorite part was the description of the nationwide craze for Polynesian food in the 50s and 60s. During my teen-age years, restaurants like The Polynesian and The Hawaiian in Salt Lake City gave pre-prom teen-age diners the illusion that they were sophisticated diners. They thought they were far removed from their mother’s humdrum pot roasts.

 

Those restaurants with their thunderstorm sound effects and periodic tropical rainfalls trickling down the bamboo covered walls were silly. Still, it’s fun to remember an era when I thought a restaurant entrance flanked with giant plastic tikis was sophisticated.

 

American Gourmet is filled with anecdotes and gourmet history that may remind you of your own youth or maybe your mom or grandma’s.  You may even recall your mother’s Chinese hamburger. That was a casserole of hamburger and noodles doused with a dash of soy sauce and served over canned Chinese noodles. Today the dish is passe, and no one would call it gourmet.

 

In her own small way, your mom was participating in a food revolution that affected the whole country. Looking at old family recipes as part of this revolution can open your eyes to a whole new side of your ancestors. They saw themselves as modern, swank eaters who were not tied down to old-fashioned cooking ideas.

 

If you want a glimpse into the societal forces behind your family’s eating habits, social histories are a great way to learn about them. American Gourmet and the other Michael and Jane Stern books can help you flesh out your family’s history. Their books are available on Amazon and can be found in many public libraries as well. They’re worth a read.

Carol Stetser

Researcher

Larimer County Genealogical Society

Online Family Trees – Help or Hindrance

May 3, 2024

Unlike many genealogists, I like online family trees. Whenever I start a new project, I begin by checking what’s available on the various family trees. I know that online trees are not always the most accurate source for genealogical information. However, they are the best place I know for quickly finding hints and clues about a person or family.

 

Having said that, online family trees can be a source of frustration. A genealogist should never incorporate anything found on one of them without verifying its accuracy. Sadly, many new and not-so-new genealogists neglect this important step.

 

Recently, I’ve been researching my fifth great grandfather Timothy Skinner. I’ve known where Timothy fits in my family tree for decades, but I’ve known almost nothing about his life. I began by checking the online trees on Ancestry, Family Search and My Heritage. Turns out there were a lot of them. There were nearly 2000 trees for him in Ancestry alone.

 

With so many trees to explore, I expected to find a wealth of information on Timothy and the rest of the Skinners. Sadly, that wasn’t the case. Most of the trees were clones of each other. It appeared that someone had posted a tree, and everyone else had merely copied it.

 

This wouldn’t have been so bad if the original tree hadn’t been incorrect. It showed Timothy and his wife as the parents of ten children – born over a period of forty years. While it is possible for a man to father children for such a long period, women do not bear children for forty years. It only takes a quick look to see that the trees show Timothy’s wife having her first child at the age of twenty and her last at the age of sixty. Sixty isn’t an age at which women have children. That’s what all the trees indicated, though.

 

It’s possible that the original poster of Timothy’s tree made a mistake and overlooked the lengthy childbearing period that the tree showed. However, I do wonder why none of the people who copied that original tree noticed the error.

 

I suspect that some people merely copy information from other trees. They don’t even bother to check whether the information they’re copying makes sense.

 

Despite that, I still routinely check online trees. Often they’re a goldmine of information. I’ve found copies of documents and pictures I’d never seen before. Then there are the times, like with Timothy Skinner, that I find dozens of trees for someone. They’re all clones of one another, and all of them are wrong.

 

You never know what you’ll find on online trees, but it’s worth checking them anyway. Even if the information you find is bogus, it may still spur you to try to find out the real story.

 

Happy Hunting,

 

Carol Stetser

Researcher

Larimer County Genealogical Society